We Have A Serious Issue We Need To Discuss

I strongly recommend this action. I feel its about time we all just forget our differences and move on. We were all such good friends before and as much as I regret that the guild we had is now two, I understand that that can't be undone... but I think we can all still play together and have fun.

I know Sokky has legitimate reasons for not feeling comfortable around toast, but that is something between them that they should be able to deal with on their own. If anyone else feels like they would be uncomfortable then I would like you to voice that as well. I know I haven't been active in a long time, but I still love you all and want to see every one happy again. <3

Past ~ Is what Defines us

Present ~ Is what Changes us

Future ~ Is only what we can Imagine

Please don't do that, Sokky... This is a peace effort, not a separation tactic. Don't get me wrong, I'm neutral here. I left Toast on a sour note, so I feel conflicts between her and I may arise; but, there's a pocket of friends in Dragonfly that I miss. Two points kinda cancel each other out...

To me I am going to post something that I said to Akayame: "You came too close to the fire and got burned" end of story. So you came to close to me and I let you come close to me and yet you came too close and you got hurt. Besides who are all the neutral friend that is affected by this? Veridion? Kittyashcd? Pikochan?

Veridion is not close buddy w/ me, she is Klarrann's buddy, and beside I don't think she feel awkward at all. She play with both party constantly and no problem arises.

Kittyashcd is not neutral she already choose a side. If you want you can chat with her again do it, if you want to play with her do it. I have no say in telling anyone to play with anyone.

Pikochan I really don't know much about what went on with the both of you.

Seriously the sponsor of the guild of Chou would probably not like this. They know the issue, they know the parties involved, and they know who the individuals who are involved. I don't see a point in making a sister guild with Dragonfly. Nothing is going to change, nothing is going to happen, and besides its not going to change how everyone feels about the issue. Play with your friends in Dragonfly. If they feel awkward that is their problem. My guild Chou is not going to bow down to you Dragonfly.

Every body needs to know, this is not about sokken and toast. Toast is NOT trying to renue her friendship with Sokkun. Sokkun is under no pressure to be civil to her either. There issue is non of our buisiness anyways. This is about mending a rift between two groups of people. The members of dragonfly and the members of chou. This isn't about toast and sokkun. I love them both but our wolrd should't revolve around them and their personal lives.

@Sokkun I understand you are concerned about the oppinions of these "sponsors" but if they do have an oppinion I would like for them to express it themselfs for the benefit of everyone. If they wish to remain anonymous then they may post under the names of "sponsor1,2,3,ect."

@soul, please calm down. I don't think anything will be gained from slinging mud. I appreciate your oppinion but we're not trying to bring up the past here. Must of us just want to move on to a happier future.

Listen aka I'm pretty sure none of us have problems with dragonfly so this alliance would be bogus no one feels awkward about dragonfly we are fine with them the only people who think we have a gap between us is you and toast the Chou members are fine with dragonfly and still hang out with them.And as for the dragonfly I believe toast is making them feel uncomfortable when they do hang out with us but that's just my opinion

Okay, this thread has gone from "Alliance!" to "It means this! No, this!" to a monkey throwing fecal matter across the room.

Toast wants to mend a rift between two guilds that doesn't exist, fine. It's been "resolved" long ago, but somehow those words are being twisted into "Toast wants to be Sokky's pal again." Where the hell did she say those were her intentions?

Soul, calm yourself, get some chloroform if that's what it takes. Yelling at other people is as productive as a fire in a house made of cedar. Furthermore, swearing in an argument is a sign you don't know what you're doing. I recognize a few of those sentences. Stop being such a student. You aren't taking a test, so stop regurgitating information.

Aka, I appreciate your efforts, but this is a sore subject for a few people. I don't even think time is the proper medication anymore. Maybe we should just drop it like it's hot and leave it be. Perhaps this is a wound not even Heaven Canceler can fix. Wounds from a friend are better than kisses from an enemy. I'll cherish these wounds forever, even if they aren't mine to keep.

Sokky, I'll take your advice. There's a few friends in Dragonfly that I miss and want to hang out with. Hopefully they aren't busy.

Dragonfly is an independent guild and so is Chou. We don't feud, we don't like to feud, and we won't feud even if we were paid. Like my father says "If it works, don't fix it."
Everything seems to be working now, so I find no need to fix it.

Its ok soul. I understand where you're coming from I'm not trying to presure anybody into anything.

Piko you're right this does bring up a lot of hurt. And I'm sory I haven't been there for all of you recently. Life has pulled me in so many directions. But I wish you all could see that I care for each of you deaply. I know nothing lasts forever and we've lost a lot along the way, but we've made so many good memories too. As for those of us who are still here, there is no good reason to not to make an official statement that we are done with the past and we are all one family of friends.

Besides, real life has enough bs in it. Mabi is where I go to forget my problems ;D

Personally, I'm not really going to say I'm taking Sokk's side... but everything he said -- I agree with. So I in theory am on his side of this thing. I got bitched and douche-fucked by toast cause of a random and useless PMS she had. It's not forgivable in my mind when you've known someone for so long and they just randomly take a hammer and smack your balls like that. ----- On the other note, other than toast, I have no problems with anybody in that clan. Even in this game, there are only a select few who i actually DISLIKE (number does not exceed 5). So in the guild alliance issue, I feel as if im neutral. --But at the same time, I feel as if it's useless... If it's just playing with other people, why go as far as being "sister" guilds? Why not just play? It's not like theres something between the two guilds... it's between two people. I feel like the guild "sisterhood" is not needed at all.

FINAL NOTE -- No, HIGHLY DISAGREE

Lol sok I think you're forgetting that I am a member of chou. Also this isn't about taking sides, its about removing the line. And this isn't my idea, this is some thing little bro and taost talked about. The only person I talked to about it was you... I'm just cought in the middle like every one else.

But if you're going to put your foot down than I give up I'm sory, I only want to help.

Soulpaladin wrote:

@aka and sokkeysaka Would you two go get a room as the topic suggests we are talking about serious business here >:3 but anyway all jokes aside i totally disagree with this Sisterhood and i disagree with klar it doesnt take a week for us to make up our minds. Our minds are pretty much made up Chou will be its own guild end of story.

Well, I hope this decision works the same way as... a certain act of passion does. In which, if one party collectively says no, then the final answer is no.

Thanks klar, if the rest of you don't like this idea than it's all good. I don't have allot of free time now that I'm in the army, (they're sending me to Germany for a couple weeks soon) and the very little time I do get to spend with you all is the most fun I ever have. That's why it kills me to see some of you unhappy. I figured this sisterhood idea might be a step in that direction so I tried to support it. Well, maybe that's a step too far.

I'm just not going to choose between friends. I'll be here when I can. If you want to play with me, play with me. It's that easy. <3

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EDIT: I chose that pic for my avitar cuz that's how I've been feeling, torn in half by craziness that doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Like my head is ready to explode x.x